Key Sexual Organs for Both Men and Women.
The Brain
The most important sexual organ is the brain. The brain controls all of our sexual responses, releases sex hormones, and gives us the ability to create sexual fantasies. In our minds, we can recall or create sexual experiences that may generate erotically stimulating sensations in our bodies. Fantasy can allow us to experience thoughts and feelings that we may not want to or be able to live out in reality and can provide safe sexual fulfillment.
The skin
The largest sexual organ is the skin. The skin is woven with an intricate system of nerves that are responsive to changes in temperature, touch, and texture. High concentrations of nerves in the skin of particular body areas make these areas very sensitive and responsive to stimulation, thus causing sexual arousal and pleasure. These areas are called erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are unique to each individual—any part of the body can be erogenous. Common areas identified as erogenous zones include the neck, earlobes, mouth, lips, nipples, genitalia, buttocks, inner thighs, anus, backs of knees, fingers, and toes.
The breasts
The breasts For both women and men, the breasts may provide sexual pleasure. In both sexes, the nipples may be highly sensitive to stimulation. The main difference between female and male breasts is the amount of fatty tissue within the breast.For women, the breasts provide optimal nourishment for infants. Also for women, the glandular composition of the breast is very sensitive to hormonal changes in the body consistent with the menstrual cycle. Consequently, a woman’s breasts may vary in sensitivity or tenderness from one part of the month to another, or from one cycle to another.
Sexual Intercourse
For many women, it is NOT the penis which brings on orgasm. Gentle stimulation of the clitoris is what most women like, and what brings most women to orgasm. Communication with your partner is key to finding out what makes her feel good—a little bit of patience and understanding will allow you to both get a lot of pleasure out of sex! Also listen to your partner’s needs when it comes to inserting your penis into her vagina. Making sure that she is fully aroused and mentally relaxed before attempting insertion is very important, since most woman will become lubricated and their vaginal openings will relax during arousal. Using a lubricant such as KY Liquid or Astroglide can also help ease the entry. Taking small and gradual steps towards penetration is the best way to go. Talk with your partner about what types of foreplay you both enjoy, and remember that these activities can be just as fun as (or sometimes even more fun than) intercourse itself. Here’s a technique you may want to try: Using lubrication, rub your penis between her thighs. This will not be painful to her, since there is no vaginal penetration, and it will feel good for you too! Gradually, you can experiment with very shallow penetration. Listen to her for cues about how deep to go next. Keep in mind that deep penetration with your current partner may prove to be too painful to her, as the internal female reproductive organs are very sensitive. To put this in perspective, if a man’s penis thrusts against a woman’s ovaries, it gives her a feeling equivalent to a man’s being hit in the testicles. Not a good feeling! So just remember that with good communication between you and your partner, and a little bit of imagination, sex can be fun and feel great no matter what size your penis is. Vagina- A tube that extends from the vaginal opening into the female body towards the uterus. The vaginal opening lies inside the labia minora. The vagina is about 3 to 5 inches long in an unaroused female. During sexual arousal, the vagina elongates and expands. It can accommodate any size penis during penile/vaginal sexual intercourse.
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